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	<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 18:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>How covid changed the face of the Thai Ladyboy...</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/how-covid-changed-the-face-of-the-thai-ladyboy-r166</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>The Lockdown Effect</span></span></strong><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>With the onset of the pandemic, lockdown measures led to the temporary closure of entertainment venues, including the ladyboy bars that were once the lifeblood of Thailand's vibrant nightlife. As well as long periods of total lockdowns hit many bars and struggled to stay afloat, ladyboys found themselves facing an uncertain future.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>While Thailand had been able to resist the need for curfews and lockdowns much longer than many other nations, once it did, it was clear that this wouldn’t be a short-term situation. Most bar and business owners did their best to negotiate reduced rental costs or could survive through personal funds, but some bars had no choice but to close permanently.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>While a brief period of curfews and a small wave of holidaymakers began to arrive over the 2020 Christmas period, the revival was short-lived. After a second major period of lockdowns began in April 2021, a large percentage of the bars and nightlife businesses in Pattaya, Phuket, and Bangkok, closed their doors for good. Thailand’s nightlife districts were ghost towns.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://images.pond5.com/pattaya-walking-street-empty-night-footage-170013346_iconl.jpeg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>From Bar to the Online World</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>While some ladyboy bars managed to weather the storm and reopen their doors, others were less fortunate. The pandemic necessitated a pivot to new business models, and some establishments embraced the online world wholeheartedly. A number of bars began live streaming, giving those trapped far away a chance to view and feel a virtual part of the bar. This also allowed (and encouraged) online patrons to give virtual tips and buy lady drinks, helping to generate much-needed income for the bars and staff.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For many of the bar workers and ladyboy of Thailand’s nightlife scene, not being able to work for long periods lead to a need to be resourceful. As with the bars, many ladyboys began turning to social media, webcam work, and, notably, personal content sales, lead by the boom of OnlyFans and similar platforms.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>With many ladyboys and bar workers turning to online work and others unable to make an income, the majority began to leave Thailand’s tourist hotspots and return to their hometowns. For many, this meant moving back to Issan, the region that most ladyboy bar workers called home.</span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Safety Measures and Adaptation</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>As Thailand finally began to ease restrictions late in 2021, ladyboy bars were required to implement a range of safety measures to mitigate the spread of the virus. For many, it was a case of ‘too little, too late.’ There were so many new rules hampering those bars still trying to re-open. Rules varied from district to district, but many bars were required to put on a front and operate as a restaurant, having to apply for complicated Sha+ licenses and adhere to a number of hygiene rules and reduced hours, which many saw as absurd. On top of this, client numbers were still a fraction of 2019 numbers, with many entry rules and the need to be vaccinated causing limitations.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Despite this, some bars notably used this time to reinvent themselves and refurbish their establishments, while a number of new bars wonders to take a punt on things returning to normal (or close enough to it). Thailand’s busiest bar town, Pattaya, was starting to see a number of new bars appear (including some ladyboy bars), and there was a general optimism growing.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://www.unaids.org/sites/default/files/styles/webstory_ptohogallerytopimage/public/tg_thailand_960.jpg?itok=wPE7OnEZ' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>The Future of the Ladyboy Bar Scene</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>As Thailand and the world move towards recovery, the ladyboy bar scene continues to adapt and evolve. It is evident that the pandemic has left an indelible mark on the industry, with online platforms and virtual experiences likely to remain an integral part of the scene even as restrictions are lifted. While many ladyboys have returned to be in and around the bar scenes of Thailand, a good number now prefer to work freelance and use platforms such as Smooci and ThaiFriendly, in order to find customers.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The legalisation of marijuana and the influx of Chinese tourists and Russian ex-pats look like it is reshaping Thailand’s adult nightlife to incorporate more couples and alternative nightlife attractions. While the traditional ladyboy bar experience may never be quite the same, the resilience, creativity, and camaraderie that have defined the community throughout this crisis mean that some form of the old still ladyboy bar scene will remain, however, it will become part of a much more diverse and interesting nightlife scene, where invention and adaptation will prove key.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2023 16:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>How much are Ladyboy Escorts in Phuket?</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/how-much-are-ladyboy-escorts-in-phuket-r165</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>In general, prices tend to be a little higher in Phuket than in Bangkok, but with a bit of charm and know-how, you can expect to keep within a similar budget. To help you understand how much escorts in Phuket cost, we'll break it down into the different types of escorts you are likely to meet.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>So, how much are Escorts in Phuket, and what are the different types of escort services available?</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>How much are Escort Agency ladyboys in Phuket?</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media.giphy.com/media/WNc8mQ6Np4anYLtxbf/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Phuket escort agency prices are very similar to those in Bangkok. We recently wrote about The best Phuket escort agencies 2022, and while reviewing our favourite three agencies, we found that prices have dropped quite a bit in the last two years.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Pre-covid, you'd expect to pay around 4,000 to 6,000 Baht for two hours with a Phuket agency escort (and higher for the top models). It now seems agencies are starting to offer more 1 hour services, and prices are going as low as 2,500 baht for the hour.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>It's important to note that services such as couples and mistress play will commonly cost extra, with prices based on one client (so expect a premium if you are a couple).</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>You can expect to pay around 7,000 to 10,000 Baht for all night bookings. Angels Escorts have some excellent offers for longer-term dates, starting at 9,000 for a full 24 hours, and 24,000 Baht for three full days and nights.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Typically, agencies are very firmly against negotiating on their base short term rates. Still, if you plan to take a Phuket agency escort for 24 hours or more, they should be much more open to negotiating the price and terms.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>By becoming a premium member (<a href='https://smooci.com/premium' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>https://smooci.com/premium</a>) on Smooci, you can get exclusive discounts on all rates.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>How much are Freelance Escorts in Phuket</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media4.giphy.com/media/Qv5TjYPMeesh3ALM4N/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>When discussing how much freelance escorts in Phuket cost, it's better to break it into two sub-categories: Freelancers who use more professional escort sites and directories and freelancers who work on the streets, in freelance bars, and using dating sites. Let's call them pro freelancers and casual freelancers.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Pro Freelancers</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Pro freelancers tend to know the going rates clients pay the escort agencies and will usually follow similar pricing. Many of these escorts have (or still do) work for agencies, and they will try to give a more professional approach. They will also be harder to negotiate with unless you look for a longer booking. Expect to pay anything from 2,000 to 8,000 Baht for a short time (1-2 hours) and 5,000 to 15,000 for a long-time (overnight). It's fair to say that most pro freelancers will agree to the lower end of those prices.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Casual Freelancers</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>With casual freelancers, you can expect lower pricing and more negotiation opportunities. These freelancers will offer prices similar to beer bar girl prices. It's possible to find some short-times for as low as 1,000 baht, although expect to pay around 1,500 to 2,500 baht. Long-time can be as low as 1,500 baht, but you should be expecting to spend at least 2,000 baht and up to 5,000 baht. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>While everyone likes a bargain and doesn't want to pay more than they need to, it's often the case that you get what you pay for. If a freelancing escort on a dark beach path is offering you a 500 baht short time, it might not be as great as it first sounds. Always use common sense and politely decline if it feels right and walk away. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>How much are Bar Girl (and Agogo) escorts in Phuket?</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media3.giphy.com/media/hXIyHHRdXfi0jz7BMX/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Bargirl escorts are ladyboys/women who work in beer bars and agogos and are allowed to be bar fined. Again we need to talk about these in two categories, as the pricing for the escorts working in a beer bar will usually be different from those working in an agogo bar.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Beer bar escorts work in beer bars, usually more simple bars, often open-air and in a complex or group of similar establishments. Pricing for drinks is usually much cheaper here than in an agogo or nightclub. Beer bar escorts will often charge similar to casual freelance rates (discussed above).</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Agogo escorts work in agogo bars, usually themed with stages where staff will dance on rotation. Prices for drinks are generally around 20% more expensive (although cheap draft beer offers have become common in recent years). You can also expect to pay more for the escort's time in an agogo when compared to a beer bar escort. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>It's tough to give a precise cost for an agogo escort, as it can vary from place to place and girl to girl. Usually, the agogo will suggest prices to the staff but leave it up to their discretion. Some lower-end agogos may offer escort pricing similar to beer bars, whereas you can expect to pay closer to escort agency prices at high-end agogos. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>It's also worth noting that you are likely to find different groups of dancers/escorts in agogo girls. There may well be a large selection of 'standard' dancers and a small group of 'premium' dancers. You can usually spot the difference based on their dress/uniform but expect to pay more (up to double) for a premium dancer.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Lady Drinks</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media1.giphy.com/media/3oKIPa2TdahY8LAAxy/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The significant difference between taking an agency escort and a bar girl escort is that you will have to go to a bar or agogo to meet the escort. While many prefer this as it allows you to spend time to get to know the escort and talk to several escorts before you make your final choice, it also means having to stay in the bar and spend money. Some people still prefer this as it helps find good chemistry and rapport in advance, but others don't, as it means spending additional time and money.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>How much extra money it costs depends on how much time you spend in the bar and how many drinks you buy. Firstly it's important to understand that when you buy a drink for a girl in a bar or agogo, it is called a lady drink and will come at a premium price. Lady drinks cost extra as this is a way a bar can maximise profit, but the escort will also earn a commission on their drinks. Lady drinks can cost as little as 20 baht extra in low-end beer bars and 3-4 times the price in higher-end agogos. It's always best to ask the price of a lady drink in advance.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>When buying a lady drink, you allow the escort to spend time with you. The escort will usually stay with you for the duration it takes to finish the drink (note that this will be a shot in some agogos and only last 5 mins or less of their time). </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Bar fines</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>You will also need to pay a bar fine when taking a girl from a bar or agogo. This compensates the bar for allowing their staff to leave work early. Even if you take a bar escort for 1 hour to a short-time room on the property, you will still usually be required to pay a bar fine.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>How much are escort bar fines in Phuket?</span><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media1.giphy.com/media/Ff73rASQO83UuM0Bo9/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Again, this varies quite a bit, depending on the place and even the time and day. Usually, beer bars will have a more reasonable bar fine of around 300 to 500 baht, allowing the escort to leave work for the rest of the night. In agogos, the bar fines tend to be much higher, varying from 500 baht to as much as 2,000 baht for a premium dancer (especially one that takes part in shows at the bar).</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>It's also worth noting that some bars and agogos will charge extra if the bar fining someone very early (say, before 7 pm) and will raise the cost of a bar fine for special days when the bar is busy (e.g. Christmas and New Years, when the bar want to keep most of their staff working to attract customers inside). </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Short time hotels</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Often known as short-time hotels or love hotels, these are places that offer rooms for a short period, usually around 3 hours. We've published a post on guest friendly hotels in Phuket to help you find hotels that allow you to bring escorts back to your hotel. But some may find themselves in a hotel that doesn't allow guests, or they prefer to be discreet and use short-time hotels.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Short time hotels can range in price from as little as 300 baht to over 1,000 baht for a nicer room. Some bars and agogos may even have rooms on the property but expect to pay similarly for using these rooms.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.<br /><br />For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.<br /><br />For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2022 17:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Phuket, Thailand Escort Scams</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/phuket-thailand-escort-scams-r163</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>That said, there are specific scams and traps to be aware of. Here are the most common escort scams in Phuket, Thailand (and how best to handle them).</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Phuket Escort Agency Scams</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://media4.giphy.com/media/3ohhwH6yMO7ED5xc7S/giphy.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Bait and switch</strong>: This is when the escort in the photo/video isn’t the one who turns up in your room. You see a stunning slim, 21-year-old model on the agency website, but she is not the girl you’ve been dreaming of when you open your hotel room door. Bait and switch is highly unlikely to happen when using a trusted, well-known Phuket escort agency.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: Fortunately, this isn’t common in Thailand. If it does happen, address it immediately and try not to let the escort into the room. Stand your ground, but remain calm and don’t get aggressive. If there is drama, call the hotel security/reception swiftly. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Photoshopping</strong>: This is a far more common Phuket, Thailand escort scam. Heavily edited escort photos aren’t unique to Thailand; this is an issue with escorts far and wide. It’s similar to the bait and switch, but instead of a different person showing up, it’s the same person, but they don’t look as good as in the photos.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: It depends on how heavily the photoshopped images are. If the person looks nothing like the photos and you don’t find them attractive, it’s best to follow the advice above. If the escort seems a little different, but you still find them attractive, it’s best to overlook the issue and see how the chemistry works out.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Fake Reviews</strong>: This is something we work hard to eliminate on Smooci. Sadly, many escort sites don’t have a suitable method or system for spotting fake reviews. So, you see some glowing reports on an escort offering certain services and experiences, but when they arrive, the experience is nothing like the glowing reports and recommendations described.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: This is tricky as you tend not to realise you have been misled until after booking. You also have no proof they had anything to do with the possible fake reviews. The best advice is to play it cool and mark it as a learning experience. Getting upset, angry, or refusing to pay after the booking can lead to unnecessary drama.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Phuket Escort Freelancer Scams</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://c.tenor.com/20Ay94mNfcsAAAAC/mclovin-superbad.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Stealing</strong>: It’s not common, but you hear stories of escort clients being robbed by escorts, usually having things taken from their hotel rooms. Again, this is more common in other countries and big cities, but you should always be wary of it.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: Whenever taking an escort to your room, always request they leave their ID with security/reception. This will help you in the unlikely event they steal from you and discourage potential thieves from trying. If you catch someone stealing from you, keep calm and get them to return the stolen items. Make sure not to be aggressive or confrontational or give them a reason to create drama and play the victim. If you realise you’ve been robbed after the fact, immediately inform the hotel reception and they will help you report it and hopefully catch the thief.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Pickpocketing</strong>: Pickpocketing occasionally happens when clients cruise for freelance escorts on the streets. This usually occurs when the escorts are in darker streets, such as along the beach at night. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: We advise against purposely looking for street escorts; it’s not necessary in Thailand. If you do it, make sure not to carry any unnecessary items, don’t wear any expensive jewellery and watches, and limit the money you have on you. Be wary of where your phone and wallet are at all times. If you get a bad feeling or see something suspicious, leave immediately.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Fake IDs</strong>: One Phuket, Thailand escort scam you should always be conscious of, is the fake ID scam. Every Thai person should carry their government ID card, which will usually be needed to enter bars, clubs, and hotels. However, it’s not uncommon for an escort to borrow her friend’s ID, so don’t always take it as given that the ID matches the person holding it.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: This is usually done to hide the age or gender of the escort. If you have any doubts or suspicions that the escort you are with isn’t the person in the ID, or they seem younger, or possibly not even the gender they say they are, address it. Be friendly and calm, and ask them about it. If you still aren’t happy with their answer, ask for other proof or simply walk away.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Other Phuket Escort Scams</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://i.gifer.com/7xro.gif' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Bar and massage touts</strong>: Touting scams are when someone on the street or a taxi/tuk-tuk driver tells you about this amazing bar/massage with the hottest girls and raunchiest action you can imagine. But when you get there, you find something far less desirable and considerably more expensive than the other bars and massages all over town.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: Some bars, clubs, and shows will use touts, but it will usually be the girls/ladyboys who work there trying to draw in customers during quiet times. They will also be very close to the place (no need to get a taxi and be whisked away). There’s never a real reason to follow a tout; if you can’t see the place they are talking about within view, it’s a big no. If you find someone giving you the hard sell, say no thank you, smile, and keep moving.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Joiner fees</strong>: This is a Phuket, Thailand escort scam you hear about. Joiner fees aren’t a scam in themselves; while there is an excellent selection of guest-friendly hotels in Phuket, some hotels charge a joiner fee to take a guest back to your room. However, this becomes a scam when the hotel allows you to bring a guest back for free, but a security or staff member takes advantage and tries to charge you a joiner fee.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><em class='bbc'>What to do</em>: We always advise getting the hotel guest policy before your trip (this can be done via an anonymous email). If you think you shouldn’t have to pay a joiner fee, question it, especially if it happens at an odd hour during the night shift. If they insist you pay, ask them for a receipt and tell them you will double-check with the main reception. Standing your ground will usually cause most opportunists to back down. </span><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Thailand is a beautiful and safe country; most people are very friendly and helpful, but always keep your common sense. There are other Phuket, Thailand escort-related scams and common <a href='https://www.travelfish.org/orientation_detail/thailand/southern_thailand/phuket/phuket/159' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>tourist scams and traps</a> you should look out for, including the notorious <a href='https://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/ShowTopic-g293920-i5037-k6015393-Jet_ski_scam-Phuket.html' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>jet ski scam</a>, which you should read up on in advance.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.<br /><br />For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2022 15:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>The Phuket Ladyboy Scene 2022/2023</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/the-phuket-ladyboy-scene-20222023-r162</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>While it may not compete in terms of the number of ladyboys and bars you will find in Bangkok and Pattaya, it still has several vibrant redlight areas and places to <a href='https://smooci.com/phuket' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>book</a> and <a href='https://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>meet</a> ladyboys.<br /><br />For many adult travellers, Phuket is the complete package. The escort scene is not as in-your-face as it is in Pattaya and parts of Bangkok, but it’s there. And for those who want more than just adult nightlife, this island offers stunning beaches, nature, and a quality of life that Bangkok and Pattaya can’t compete with. Where is the Phuket Ladyboy Scene?</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='http://www.thavornbeachvillage.com/news/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Busy-atmosphere-every-night-in-Patong-Beach.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><ul class='bbc'><li><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Patong</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Bangla Road</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Karon</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Kata</span></li></ul><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Patong</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>When talking about the wild nightlife of Phuket, <a href='https://www.phuket101.net/patong-beach/' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Patong</a> is the HQ of the Phuket ladyboy scene. On the island's west side, Patong is the most popular bay and beach resort on Phuket. It has a long stretch of attractive sandy beaches lined with bars, shops, massages, etc.<br /><br />Patong hosts numerous beach parties, club nights, and live music daily. Its clubs attract international star DJs, and beaches host year-round festivals and events. This is where you’ll find the island's most attractive locals and freelance escorts. Most importantly, there are many beer bars and entertainment venues with ladyboy staff and freelancers..<br /><br />Despite Patong attracting many families, travellers, and honeymooning couples, escorting is very much accepted. You’ll find escorts available to <a href='https://smooci.com/phuket' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>book online</a> and <a href='https://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>freelance ladyboys</a> working in the busy streets, looking for company at many clubs and live music bars, and even hanging out at the sizeable Jungcelyon mall.<br />Bangla Road<br /><br />While Patong is the centre of the Phuket nightlife and escort scene, <a href='http://www.knowphuket.com/map_Bangla_Road.htm' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Bangla Road</a> is the wild beating heart of Patong. This 400-meter strip of bars and clubs is where you’ll find the best of the Phuket nightlife scene and escort venues. Here you’ll find the infamous Tiger beer bar complex, welcoming gogo bars (such as Suzie Wongs and the Devil’s Playground), ladyboy cabaret shows, live music venues, and some international standard EDM clubs.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Many clients prefer to find dates online and use Bangla Road as the ideal date spot for a fun night together. The nightlife here is extremely welcoming to singles and couples alike. It’s impossible not to have a good time cruising this wild strip and seeing where the night takes you.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Karon</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://amazingworld.travel/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Hat-Karon-Beach-Phuket.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>A short taxi ride south of Patong is Karon. Here you’ll find a different pace of lifestyle and nightlife, but also a good selection of beer bars and freelancing escorts, including some ladyboys. Karon is much more laidback and home to many large chain hotels and swish beach resorts.<br /><br />Karon has a stunning 3KM long stretch of soft sandy beach and many local eateries. It’s a great place to take a date for a few days and escape the madness, but it also has several small beer bar complexes with escorting staff available (most notably the Karon and Patong Plazas). Due to its tranquil vibe, you’ll find the ladyboys working here prefer the quiet life (whereas wilder escorts may typically like to work in the anything-goes town of Patong). That said, most staff working online in Patong will happily travel the short distance to Karon to join you.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Kata</span><br /><br />While Karon is quieter than Patong, Kata is even more peaceful, especially during the low season. But while the nightlife can be lacking at times, the beach is fantastic, and there are still several bars and freelancers working in the area. Found at the far end of Karon beach, many mongers choose to stay here to experience that idyllic laidback tropical lifestyle. It’s also only 20 mins in a taxi to the Patong nightlife, and many online escorts would travel here for a client. Kata is home to Phuket’s most prominent beach club, attracting freelancers on the big nights.<br /><br />The nightlife, beer bars, and escort scene are not in-your-face in Kata; this discretion is precisely what some are looking for. If you know where to look, you'll find several beer bar complexes in Kata, which host 5-10 bars, each hosting several escorting staff. Many of Kata; 's beer bar complexes can are off Kata Road; one, in particular, can be easily spotted due to the Spiderman statue at the entrance.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Phuket after Covid</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://static.bangkokpost.com/media/content/20200329/c1_1888780_200329153911.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>As with most places, Covid has changed the face of the Phuket escort scene, and it’s hard to know how much of this change is temporary or permanent.<br /><br />For a good while, Phuket shut down to tourism. During this time, the nightlife and escort scene was almost non-existent, and Patong and Bangla Road became ghost towns. Thankfully, things have begun to re-open, and Phuket has become host to a sandbox system where incoming tourists can visit without any notable quarantine.<br /><br />The sandbox has brought Patong and Bangla Road back to life, with this area of Phuket beginning to thrive again. Of course, it’s still not comparable to how things were in Phuket the years previous to covid, but most of the bars, clubs and other escort-friendly venues are beginning to re-open.<br /><br />Many are finding the current situation in Phuket ideal. Due to its popularity in the past, Phuket could be overcrowded at times. With the Phuket nightlife and escort scene now open to business again but tourism numbers still modest, it’s a great time to come and have fun while enjoying the paradise beaches and views.<br /><br />Despite the recovery of the Phuket escort scene in Patong, things in Karon, Kata, and areas such as Kamala and Rawaii are much quieter, with many beer bar complexes still closed. Most escorts and nightlife workers are heading to Patong while the rest of the island catches up.<br /><br />As of mid-2022, things in Phuket are starting to return to normal, but not quite as chaotic as it’s busiest months, pre-pandemic. For many, this is the perfect time to explore the Phuket ladyboy scene.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.<br /><br />For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2022 14:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Ladyboy Friendly Hotels Patong, Phuket: 2022/20...</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>‘Ladyboy friendly’ should mean you can take a ladyboy back to your room, for the night, without any extra charges to your room. Some hotels advertise themselves as ladyboy or guest friendly, but will charge a ‘joiner fee’ each time you bring a guest back (from 200 to 2,000 baht a time!). We don’t consider this ladyboy friendly, as the first guest each night should always be free to be fully guest friendly.<br /><br />We contacted these hotels in March 2022. Guest policies are rarely made public or found on hotel websites and can change at any moment. We strongly suggest emailing the hotel you wish to stay with and writing their ladyboy guest policy. You don’t have to use the email you booked with and can do it anonymously via another email address.<br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Budget Ladyboy Friendly Hotels in Phuket</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Orange-Hotel,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634277-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Orange Hotel</a><br /><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Orange-Hotel,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634277-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Best rate: 700 Baht</a></span></span><br /><br /><a href='http://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Orange-Hotel,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634277-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/87/d8/4d/sembo-634277-100c92-869597.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=520&yhint=333&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The Orange Hotel is a 10-minute walk to Bangla Road and the Jongcelyon shopping mall and only a 3 minute walk to Patong Beach. It’s a great location, in a quiet soi but with lots of bars, restaurants and ladyboy massages within a short walk away.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>This is an immaculate and reliable budget hotel, with excellent staff/security and comfortable beds. With rooms starting at 700 baht, it’s a well-recommended ladyboy friendly Patong budget Phuket hotel. Please note that there are no lifts in the building, so it’s not a good choice if you struggle with stairs.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Guest policy</strong>: “There is no joiner fee charge for a single guest if you are staying in the room. All rooms are for two people.” </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Arya-Boutique-Room,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h419203-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Arya Boutique Room</a></span><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='http://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Arya-Boutique-Room,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h419203-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Best rate: 7</a><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Arya-Boutique-Room,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h419203-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>00 Baht</a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Arya-Boutique-Room,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h419203-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/be/c9/ec/expediav2-419203-80e4eb-906205.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=500&yhint=320&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a><a href='http://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Arya-Boutique-Room,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h419203-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'> </a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The Arya Boutique is just over a 10-minute walk to Patong Beach and the heart of the ladyboy bar scene (Bangla Road). It’s a bit of a trek for those out-of-shape, especially during the hottest part of the day, but very walkable for the average person.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>This is one of the best budget hotels in Phuket and has more of a slight mid-range hotel feel. The rooms are very clean and modern, with some feeling more like a suite and the reception area also has a bar and pool table, perfect for a nightcap or afternoon tipple. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Guest policy</strong>: “Our rates are for two persons, so if you one person you can bring a ladyboy guest to stay with you for no charge (free).”</span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Mid Range Ladyboy Friendly Hotels in Phuket</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Acca-Patong,Phuket-City,Phuket,Thailand-c23911-h647234-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Acca Patong</a></span><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Acca-Patong,Phuket-City,Phuket,Thailand-c23911-h647234-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Beat rate: 900 Baht</a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Acca-Patong,Phuket-City,Phuket,Thailand-c23911-h647234-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/95/09/7e/sembo-118379648-e1f2ac19_z.jpg_resizeMode=FitInside_formatSettings=jpeg(quality-90)-464121.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=540&yhint=332&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Acca Patong is just a 3-minute walk to Bangla Road (it’s literally at the end of the short soi) and about a 7-8 min walk to Patong Beach. Located on Soi Sensabai, there are many bars, restaurants, and massages right on your doorstep.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>I’ve stayed at the Acca a couple of times and have not been disappointed. The rooms have all the essentials, including safety boxes and complimentary bathroom supplies, and the staff are always happy to see you and help when needed. Despite being a small hotel, they also have a lift.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Guest policy</strong>: “We don’t charge a joiner fee for a ladyboy to come to your room. All guests are welcome.”</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/R-Mar-Resort-And-Spa-Sha-Plus,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h330687-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>R Mar Resort & Spa</a></span><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/R-Mar-Resort-And-Spa-Sha-Plus,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h330687-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Best rate: 1,300 Baht</a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/R-Mar-Resort-And-Spa-Sha-Plus,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h330687-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/86/7b/4c/expediav2-330687-414b2e-314310.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=540&yhint=333&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The R Mar Resort is about 6 minutes walking distance to Bangla Road and only 2-3 minutes to Patong Beach. Despite being close to the action, it’s set on a small side soi, offering lots of privacy and tranquillity.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The R Mar is an upper mid-range hotel, with spotless and comfortable rooms and excellent facilities. The large lagoon pool and bar are top-notch and a great place to spend a long afternoon and recharge your batteries. The gym is also very well equipped. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Guest policy</strong>: “Yes, you can bring ladyboy guests, and we don’t charge any joiner fees. Guests can stay overnight with no fee.”</span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Luxury Phuket Ladyboy Friendly Hotels in Phuket</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Prince-Edouard-Apartment--Resort,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634817-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Prince Edouard Resort</a></span><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Prince-Edouard-Apartment--Resort,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634817-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Best rate: 1,700 Baht</a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Prince-Edouard-Apartment--Resort,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h634817-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/56/00/aa/expediav2-634817-a6575a-372731.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=540&yhint=333&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The Prince Edouard is on the far Northend of Patong, and a 25 minute walk to Bangla Road and the heart of Phuket’s nightlife (about 10-12 minutes to the beach). While it’s not a short walk, there are no shortage of taxis and the actions is only a 5-min drive away (about 300 baht each way).</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The Prince Edouard is a 4 star resort with a wide range of room types, from studios to suites and apartments. Facilities include a large gym, bars, restaurants, saunas, and a very nice pool with ocean views.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Guest policy</strong>: “You can bring ladyboy guests back to your room for an overnight stay. There is no joiner charges.”</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Indochine-Resort--Villas,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h372005-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>IndoChine Resort & Villas</a></span><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Indochine-Resort--Villas,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h372005-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Best rate: 2,100 Baht</a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><a href='https://www.hotelscombined.com/hotels/Indochine-Resort--Villas,Patong,Thailand-c47078-h372005-details/?a_aid=244265' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/himg/fa/dd/2e/expediav2-372005-f94a27-498349.jpg?width=640&height=400&xhint=480&yhint=333&crop=true' alt='Posted Image'  /></a></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The IndoChine Resort & Villas is similarly about 30 mins walk to Bangla, set in the far north of Bangla, on the road towards Kamala Beach. It’s location offers total tranquility with most of the rooms having stunning ocean views.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The rooms at the IndoChine are luxury with total comfort and style.The facilities are equally excellent, with a gym and pool both offering amazing views of Patong bay. For the ultimate in luxury Phuket stays, take a look at their private pool villas.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Guest policy: “Our rooms are for two persons or more, so you can bring a ladyboy guest and not be charged a fee. All visitors must present their ID card at the reception.”</span>]]></description>
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		<title>Meeting Filipina ladyboys in Angeles City</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>In my opinion, Asian ladyboys are where it's at. I like feminine ladyboys who basically look like chicks but just happen to have dicks between their legs.  Asia is the best place for that mainly because so many guys are born without a lot of body or facial hair. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Plus a lot of Asian ladyboys get an early start on their transformation. This gets truer as time goes on. A lot of the ladyboys I meet now in the 18 to 22 age range have grown their own tits thanks to hormones. Yet they can still get rock hard and blow as many loads as they want thanks to their inborn young guys impulses. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>This all applies to the Philippines too of course. On top of all that they do circumcision in the Philippines. Since I prefer a cut cock with a shiny head on it, that is another reason the place is a gem. Thailand is great for ladyboy lovers like me, but the Philippines is good too. </span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>PH ladyboy hot spots</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Like most other countries it seems that most of the transgenders in the Philippines concentrate in the big cities. This is the same kind of thing that has been happening with people of non-traditional sexualities going way back. It's a lot easier to get on with life in a big city when you might stick out from the crowd. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>So of course you can find a lot of ladyboys in Manila. But don't discount Angeles City either. It's the second biggest epicenter for Pinay ladyboys, and for those of us who are willing to pay to play it's probably the best. Cebu has some transexual hookers in Mango Square, but the ones I've seen there were kinda scary and masculine. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Manila has at least one ladyboy bar, but in my opinion it's nothing special. There aren't actually any ladyboy bars in Angeles City now. There was one but it closed. But that doesn't mean guys like us can't have fun. It's actually easier to find ladyboys for sex in AC now than it ever was in years past. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>You can find freelance ladyboys at a lot of bars. The famous Phillies sports bar is usually a good place to find some. You can also check Bretto's because there are usually some ladyboys there too. The main club in Angeles City is called High Society. You can find ladyboys there at night, but the bouncers only let some of them in. I am not sure why, but they seem to set a limit on ladyboys. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The gate on Walking Street might be best of all. There are always a bunch of ladyboys hanging around there, and they don't ask as much either. This is right in front of Phillies, so it's easy to kill two birds with one stone. Ladyboys in the bars usually want 1500 Pesos or more for sex. The street girls will take less than that. Sometimes a lot less. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>There's also the online option.  Both Date in Asia and Pina Love are popular online dating sites in the Philippines. But Tinder works just as well and is arguably faster. Of course in either case you have to put in work and do a lot of waiting just to arrange a meeting. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>I never get the chance to visit the Philippines for more than a week or two at a time. So time is always of the essence for me. If I don't see a ladyboy I like on the street or in the club, I just order one up to my room. I just hop on Smooci, click Angeles City, click transexual, and wait. There are some hot trannies there and they don't ask for a ton of money either. Easy as cake!</span><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining </span><a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining </span><a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try </span><a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Dec 2019 10:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Thailand Ladyboy bars where you can sample the...</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>The biggest problem with meeting ladyboys or even regular chicks on the internet to me is that you can never be sure of what you're going to get. Unless you go with a reliable outlet like Smooci where you can read verified reviews you might be unpleasantly surprised in the room. My answer to this is to stick to places where I can get out the merchandise and have a look or test drive before I commit to anything. Thankfully there are a few ladyboys bars in Thailand where this is allowed. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Over the years I have noted a number of bars where I can get my hands and more filled without paying a barfine or shelling out a ton of dough. They are basically scattered across Pattaya and Bangkok. I've been able to do a little more touching and feeling in other parts of Thailand, but no places were reliable enough to add to my main list. </span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Best in Bangkok</span></strong><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>In Bangkok you have all the main ladyboy go go bars in Nana Plaza and now Soi Cowboy. Your mileage may vary depending on the bar and the ladyboy, but you can usually get pretty hands on in any of these places. A lot of times they get to touching on you whether you like it or not. It's not out of the norm for guys or the girls to get their cocks out and put them into action in these places either. Some are more discrete than others. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>In my experience Charade on the third floor of Nana Plaza allows for the most mileage. Cockatoo on Soi Cowboy allows for the least. Others are in between, but again it just depends on the situation. Sometimes they act all calm and reserved. Another time you might see a head bobbing up and down out of the corner or your eye. </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The regular Bangkok ladyboy bars are next. Here I'm talking about places like Check Inn and Chaos 9. Check Inn is on a little alley just as you turn down Soi 10 from Sukhumvit Road. There's a sign out front that is easy to see. Inside you find a bevy of ladyboy babes in lingerie who are eager to sit with you, or sit on you. It can get very wild inside. Last visit I saw a ladyboy riding a big dildo with a suction cup on the bar!</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Plenty in Pattaya</strong></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Down in Pattaya you have a lot of options too. First there are the go go bars like Kathoeys R Us on Walking Street and Surprise Yourself and Baby Boom up around Soi Bukhao. You can usually take a look at the goods in any of these bars. And I've seen kissing and petting too. But for real fun Baby Boom is the unmistakable choice. There are ten or more ladybody dancers in there wearing just knickers or less, and they're always eager to get busy. In fact I'd be surprised if you could get out of the place without being touched in all sorts of ways! For my money it's the best value in town in terms of ladyboy bars. </span><br /><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining </span><a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining </span><a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try </span><a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a><span style='font-size: 18px;'>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Dec 2019 10:53:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Finding ladyboys in the day time in Bangkok</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/finding-ladyboys-in-the-day-time-in-bangkok-r144</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Finding ladyboys during the day in Bangkok, </strong>a guest blog</span><br /><br />Bangkok is the capital of Thailand and in many ways the world capital of ladyboys. The nightlife for ladyboy lovers is absolutely legendary. And we now have more options than we have ever had before. There are pure ladyboy go go bars, beer bars, lounges, and more. Not to mention the ladyboy freelancer strolls and all the available shemales on dating sites like <a href='https://thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a>. But what about the off hours when the sun is still shining?<br /><br />It can be kind of boring sitting around all day waiting for the nightlife to start though. You can only look at so many temples, sit in so many coffee shops, and walk around so many overly air conditioned shopping malls. After a while it gets old. Especially when you're thinking about hot chicks with dicks the whole time.<br /><br />Thankfully there are now some options to fill in all that available time between sun up and sundown. So there's no need to pontificate on the meaning of life in the back of a Holly's Cafe while waiting for <a href='https://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Attraction_Review-g293916-d12812609-Reviews-Nana_Plaza_Bangkok-Bangkok.html' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Nana Plaza</a> to open for the night. You can get busy during the day and then get busy again after dark!<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>A very happy ending</strong></span><br /><br />One of the best things about Thailand is massage. Thai massage is world famous, and there is no shortage of massage parlors anywhere in Bangkok. You even see them in weird places on the outskirts. You can usually find a ladyboy or two in most massage parlors. And they tend to give the best massages, but they don't always give happy endings. Some of them are strangely shy it seems.<br /><br />But there are a couple of massage parlors where happy endings are pretty much guaranteed. The main give away is that the ladyboys sit out front wearing sexy dresses that border on lingerie! My absolute favorite is Montra Massage which is located right on Sukhumvit between Soi 5 and Soi 7. If you have been down that stretch of road before you have probably seen ladyboys sitting in front of that shop or the one next to it. There are more outside the massage parlors on Soi 7/1 too.<br /><br />Don't be shy! Next time you pass, just step inside with the ladyboy of your choice and you can get a rubdown that you will never forget. The prices are of course negotiable, but they are pretty cool. Last time I was in one of these massage shops I did a mutual handjob session for a mere 500 Baht. She lamented wasting her first shot of spunk for the day for such little money, but it didn't stop her from launching her load across my abdomen!<br /><br />If that doesn't work for you, you can go the more private route and spend your day browsing through the profiles on <a href='https://thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a>. There are endless numbers of ladyboys there. The biggest problems are digging through the boring regular girls and trying to figure out which pictures are real. A lot of ladyboys use filters on their pics, so you never know what you are going to get. You can usually find someone to come visit you at your room though.<br /><br />I personally don't have that kind of time to waste every day though. So when the feeling strikes me and it's too hot and sticky outside to walk to Manta, I just go to <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>. I know exactly what I am going to get, and I can find ladyboys at all hours of the day or night. I don't need to ask if they are top or bottom, or whether they take a CIM finish. I don't even have to ask the price. I just find a ladyboy I like, check out her stats, services and prices, and then book her to come right over to my room. I love Bangkok!<br /><br /><br />For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.<br /><br />For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.<br /><br />For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jun 2019 19:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Our 5 favourite ladyboy bars in Pattaya 2019</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/our-5-favourite-ladyboy-bars-in-pattaya-2019-r143</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Our 5 favourite ladyboy bars in Pattaya 2019</strong></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The bar/ladyboy scene in Pattaya is one of constant change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worst, Pattaya is a city which is always evolving. You may arrive next trip to find your favourite hangout has changed from a cosy Hard Rock bar with beer on tap, to a Korean themed K-pop club serving overpriced cocktails, but that always leaves lots of new bars and faces to be discovers, and keeps things interesting.<br /><br /><br />This isn’t a definitive list of the new bars in town, or even a list of the most popular ladyboy haunts, it’s simply a list of our favourite places we’ve been to this year and why we love them so. We’ve tried to pick a different type of bar for each selection to keep it varied.<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The best for a chilled night: TJs</strong></span><br /><br />TJs is a very laid-back ladyboy bar with a super friendly vibe. Managed by the same team that successfully ran the popular Cocktails and Dreams bar in Phuket for so long, this place still keeps up the tradition of hosting regular ladyboy shows where the staff get to lip sync, dance, and have fund with the patrons.<br /><br />The only down side of TJs the location, set all the way down in Naklua soi 18. But it’s worth making the journey at least once a trip, especially if you are looking for a night away from the usually noise and chaos Pattaya serves up.<br /><br />Another notable chilled ladyboy bar is Litas on Pattaya 13/4. Great location, very friendly staff, and always a pleasure to have a drink with the hostess Lita (there is also a new ladyboy bar right next door worth checking out).<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The best beer bar: New bar</strong></span><br /><br />New bar is on the Soi Buakaow end of the Made in Thailand street. Although only a couple of years old, New Bar has already established itself as one of Pattaya’s main ladyboys bars and sits in a small beer bar complex which isn’t as crazy or overbearing as many of the neighbouring complexes.<br /><br />Usually staffed with 4-6 ladyboys, in a good location, this is a bar worth hitting at any time after dark and has a fairly chilled vibe. Saddle up to the bar and introduce yourself to the friendly all-ladyboy staff, and then play a few games of pool to get to know them better. You’re guaranteed a great night.<br /><br />Other notable ladyboy beer bars: 69 Bar (further down on soi made in Thailand), and any number of bars on Sois 7 and 8 off Beach Road.<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The best for naughtiness: Fantasy lounge</strong></span><br /><br />Fantasy Lounge has been around sometime now and always seems to have a gaggle of ladyboys at the entrance, hungrily ready to follow any customers as they enter. If you do dare to step into this mini den of debauchery, you’ll find plenty of young ladyboys trying to lure you into the darker corners of the bar for some more intimate ‘get to know you’ time.<br /><br />On Soi Buakaow, close to the entrance of Soi LK Metro, there are several good ladyboys bars here, where fondling is the norm, including Nidcha Bar and Surpirse! But Fantasy Lounge gets the nod as our favourite as they always have a good mix of ever popular LBs and fresh new faces.<br /><br />Other notably ladyboy bars for naughtiness: just head to Beach Road soi 6 for a whole street of them.<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The best gogo: Katoeys are us</strong></span><br /><br />Katoeys Are Us is another bar which is now well established on the Pattaya ladyboy map. Since the closure of Obsessions bar and Stringfellows, Pattaya was in need of a new ladyboy agogo and this place ticks the boxes.<br /><br />On Soi Diamond, just off Walking Street, this sizable agogo keeps a good number of tall and attractive staff, and are open from 8 til late. It’s not the cheapest place to spend the night, and if you look and act like a newbie you’ll get hustled for drinks and overwhelmed with attention (but that’s what some guys love), but it’s a great bar to pop in for a drink or three when all the late night action migrates to this part of town.<br /><br />Other notable ladyboy agogos: Baby Boom is a very intimate ladyboy agogo just off soi buakow (around the corner from Surprise!)<br />.<br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The best late-night spot: Marine Disco</strong></span><br /><br />If you are a night owl, or able to drink enough redbulls to make it through to the early hours, then there is no better late night ladyboy spot than Marine disco. An institute of the ladyboy scene Marine has been the ladyboy disco of choice for well over a decade.<br /><br />This place can be hit or miss, but when it’s a hit it’s a big one and can draw in 50+ ladyboys on a big night, especially when a guest DJ, band, or special event is on. But when we say head here late we mean it, some times you can pop in at 2.30am and find just 3-4 ladyboys hanging by the DJ booth, and 45 mins later that number can be 30+.<br /><br />Other notable late night ladyboy spots: Hot Tuna, a little further up on Walking Street, is where a lot of the ladyboy ‘super stars’ like to hang out and prey on drunk and naughty passers-by.<br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>What has been your favourite Pattaya ladyboy bar this year?</strong></span><br /><br />For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining <a href='http://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=337' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Thai Friendly</a> which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.<br /><br />For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining <a href='http://myladyboydate.com/a/120' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>My Ladyboy Date</a> which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.<br /><br />For ladyboy escorts in Asia and Europe, make sure to try <a href='https://smooci.com/?utm_source=ladyboyforum' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>Smooci</a>.</span>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jun 2019 19:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Lady Boy Water Volley Ball 1 Nov 2014</title>
		<link>https://ladyboyforum.com/page/articles.html/_/bar-life/lady-boy-water-volley-ball-1-nov-2014-r42</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>A week of terrific parties, in all the bars, with Miss Tiffany International Queen on 7th November. </span><span style='font-size: 18px;'>A unique day out that provides an opportunity for us to support and contribute to the community we admire.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>This year there will be 8 teams - 10 teams was considered but time, and scheduling, made it impossible.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>The 8 teams/colours (colours may change) are:</span><ul class='bbcol decimal'><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>BabyBoom - (White) Soi Bukhouw Pattaya - <em class='bbc'>Runners Up 2012</em></span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #ff0000'>Check In Bar</span> - Bangkok</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #800080'>Kings Bar</span> - Soi 8 Pattaya</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #ffa500'>LaBamba</span> - Soi 13/1 Pattaya</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><strong class='bbc'>Sensations</strong> - Action St Pattaya - <em class='bbc'>Winners 2013</em></span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #00ff00'>Stringfellows</span> - Soi 13/1 Pattaya</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #ffd700'>Temptations/Cockatoo</span> - Bangkok</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='color: #0000ff'><strong class='bbc'>TJs Music Bar</strong></span> - Soi 18 Naklua - <em class='bbc'>Runnners Up 2013</em></span></li></ul><span style='font-size: 18px;'>C&D from Phuket will not be making an appearance this year due to travel costs and impact on business. </span><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Even though Jim's team will not be playing he has pledged his onging support from the SkyLab. Terrific help.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Big thanks to Jim for all his support in 2102/2013 - not least supporting the volley ball net all day in 2012!</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Jim also nominated a local Charity, in Phuket, to whom he also presented the cheque for 250,000 Baht</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/LBWVB%202014/LBWVB5.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span></span><br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><span style='font-size: 24px;'>Sponsor a Bar</span></strong><span style='font-size: 18px;'> - 4,000 Baht (120USD/88Euro/72GBP) - complimentary non-transferable, ticket to the event if attending.<br />Proposed to have some limited 'reserved seating' in the evening so Sponsors may sit with, or adjacent, to their team. TBA.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Donate </strong></span>- Either donate money or a suitable item for the Auction/Raffle</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Ticket </strong></span>- 1,500 Baht (45USD/33Euro/27GBP) - Day to remember with 60+ LadyBoys attending in a carnival atmosphere. Includes Volley Ball plus the Gala/Buffet, Prize giving, Charity presentations, Auction/Raffle<br /><br /><strong class='bbc'><em class='bbc'>100% of All Sponsorships and Donations go to Charity.</em></strong><br />Ticket sales, with the Auction/Raffle, covers all costs and contributes to the final total.</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/LBWVB%202014/LBWVB3.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>From:<br />April - Posters on display and Tickets on sale in the bars.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>April - Another new item to help the bars collect sponsorships - visit the bars to see.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>April - Pay for Sponsorship or Donation via the bar - they will give you a receipt.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>June - The bars will also be selling a stylish 'collectable' limited edition item<br /><br />Direct Contact details:</span><ul class='bbc'><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Email - lbwvb@hotmail.com</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>PayPal - lbwvb@hotmail.com - Please use 'Family & Friends' payment. Nominate a Bar.</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Website (90,000 visits in 1 year) - <a href='https://snt147.mail.live.com/mail/17.1.7317.6000/Compose/www.lbwvb.com' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow external'>www.lbwvb.com</a></span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Tel/SMS 66 (0) 929 95 6532</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>PM </span><a hovercard-ref="member" hovercard-id="4525" data-ipb="noparse" class="_hovertrigger url fn name  bbc_member" href='https://ladyboyforum.com/user/4525-rossco/' title='Member profile'><span itemprop="name">Rossco</span></a></li></ul><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/LBWVB%202014/LBWVB2.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Please help build on the extraordinary success of 2012 and 2013. Both years have been 'sold out' well before the actual day. Only 200 Tickets available. Bars visited some of the Charities, who have benefited where they saw, first hand, the results of our contribution.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>More visits are planned so BMs can see what they have achieved.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>February 23rd. Handover of 250 Water4Life filters in a remote village in Chantaburi - only accessible by boat.<br /><br />2013 was a huge breakthrough thanks to your support.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>We achieved an amazing <strong class='bbc'>1 Million Baht</strong> which made a fantastic statement with worldwide media coverage.<br /><br />Can we do it again? With your help it is possible.<br />We can, and do, make a difference to the Charities, the supporting bars and their staff.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>In 2013 we had our first Corporate sponsor. This year we will try to increase these bountiful types of contribution.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>Please advise if you know of a company, and their contact details, who would be a possible Corp Sponsor.<br /><br />Monthly Progress updates on Forums and, hopefully, the bars will update with photos of teams and Training days.</span><br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/LBWVB%202014/LBWVB4.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>The Event Day Program.</strong></span> </span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>This year there will be a souvenir program for attendees. P<em class='bbc'>articipating bars will be hosting parties during the week prior so check Bar threads</em></span><ul class='bbc'><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>13.00 - Team Photos/Press and Media</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>13.30 - Matches start with all teams playing all the other teams within their group. 2 groups.</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>16.30 - Final between winners of 2 groups</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>17.00 - Time to change for the evening</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>19.00 - Gala/Dinner - meet the teams</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>20.30 - Presentations to teams</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>21.00 - Presentations to Charities</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>21.30 - Auction/Raflle</span></li><li><span style='font-size: 18px;'>23.00 - Visit the Winners Bar or any of your favourite other local bars</span></li></ul>]]></description>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2014 07:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Hey New Guy: It's Not Because You're a...]]></title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<span style='font-size: 18px;'>Ever stop to wonder why so many girls and ladyboys work in bars as bar girls, i.e., prostitutes?</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>I know a few of you are out there reading this and thinking, "Wait, what? It's because I'm a handsome man, right? After all they tell me that every time I walk down the soi." Well, while veteran ladyboy lovers know this isn't the reason – I know, difficult to believe, right? – it may be good for those new to scene to learn just why the girls have chosen the world's oldest profession.</span><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'>After all, knowing the motivations behind your temporary bedroom friend/adversary can help you avoid some missteps, as well as providing some empathy and respect – without having to walk a mile in her high heels (which wouldn't be easy, but not for the reasons you might think).<br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/bar%20life/ladyboys2.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Tolerated Yes. But Accepted? Only to a Point</strong></span><br /><br />Before we delve into why, let's explore a tangential aspect of bar girl life in Thailand, one that's often portrayed inaccurately in tourist guidebooks about Thailand. This pertains to bar girls and prostitution in general in Thailand and ladyboys in particular. One often hears that Thai culture is much more tolerant than those of the west – transgendered women, or ladyboys as they are called here, are an accepted part of society, and it also turns a blind eye to prostitution, being more open with regard to sexuality.<br /><br />This is, to a certain extent, true. But that's not to say that Thai people don't look down their noses at both ladyboys – particularly those in the play for play game – and girls who work in bars. But unlike in the West, where prostitution is seen as much more of a moral issue, in Thailand it's a class issue.<br /><br />If one is forced to work in a bar and "go with customers," to employ the local vernacular, one is of low economic means, and therefore considered by others to be of a lower class, socially. While there is no caste system here per se, there is a definite social distinction between well-to-do middle class Thai people, the elite rich, and those of little economic means, which here typically means those from rural areas. This is why so many girls who work in bars that cater to foreigners are from Isaan or other rural areas in central or northern Thailand.<br /><br />This is why you'll hear many rural Thais talk about "Bangkok Thais" with a mixture of envy and disdain.</span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 18px;'><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/bar%20life/Bar%20Games.jpg' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br />So your average middle class Thai person living and working in Bangkok may not see anything wrong with a girl or ladyboy from Nong Khai coming to work in a bar in Nana Plaza to support her family back home on the farm. After all, one is expected to take care of one's elder family here.<br /><br />But that same middle class Thai person isn't going to be inviting that ladyboy to join them for afternoon tea anytime soon. Furthermore, in terms of the social strata, farmers in particular are seen as being on the bottom in Thailand. Nowhere is this more prevalent than in Thai media, where farmers and those raised on a farm are typically portrayed as ignorant and stupid – what we would call rednecks.<br /><br />Ever wonder why there is such a preoccupation with white skin in Thailand and Southeast Asia in general? Because if you have dark skin that means you must be an uncouth rural denizen forced to labor in a field – most definitely not hi-so.<br /><br /><span rel='lightbox'><img class='bbc_img' src='https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/99019401/Pictures/Articles/bar%20life/ladyboy%20bar.PNG' alt='Posted Image'  /></span><br /><br /><span style='font-size: 24px;'><strong class='bbc'>Sorry Cheap Charlie, I Got Mouths to Feed. Really</strong></span><br /><br />Which brings us to the primary reason the girls and ladyboys we love work in bars: most of them have families to support. It may seem strange to a Western foreigner, but in this deeply traditional Buddhist culture, children are expected to take care of their parents and grandparents, including financially. There is no social safety net here; a family's children <em class='bbc'>are</em> the elders' safety net.<br /><br />Bear in mind too that the average farm family in Thailand makes $3,600 a year (U.S. Dollars, according to 2008 United Nations survey). Granted, the cost of living in Thailand is much less than in the West, but still, Thai farmers ain't getting rich; there's no such thing as a gentleman farmer here. In fact most are debt these days, because of the cost of fertilizer and recent natural disasters like the floods that plagued Thailand a few years back.<br /><br />So ask any girl working in a bar where she's from and the odds are good it will be from rural Thailand, commonly somewhere in Isaan. Ask her why and the answer will often be two-fold. First, she's helping support her family back home. Often times the older siblings will go to work to put the younger ones through school as well – this is particularly true of ladyboys, who still have fewer prospects in the workforce, even with a degree, than a younger brother or sister.<br /><br />Furthermore, for a girl from a poor rural family who can't afford her to send her to university, working in a bar in Bangkok or Pattaya -- among many friends and making more money than she could back home -- while avoiding the backbreaking work of rice farming, is an appealing alternative. Slog away day after day in the hot, muddy fields of Phitsanulok or dance in an air-conditioned go-go in Pattaya, going out partying with your friends afterwards? An easy choice for many girls.<br /><br />Sure there are a few girls out there who aren't doing it because they have to support their family financially, but because they enjoy the lifestyle and the easy money. But the vast majority of them are in the former category: they are the primary breadwinners for the folks back home.<br /><br />So keep that in mind the next time you get annoyed that a girl is pestering you for a lady drink or balks at your low-ball offer for a short-time price. She may literally have mouths to feed.<br /><br />And when you're doing the so-called walk of shame back to your hotel? Grow some balls and turn it into the walk of fame. Take her hand and show her – and more importantly, let her show other Thais – that you aren't ashamed to be seen with her. Your lady, be she GG or ladyboy, will appreciate it – she likely comes from the bottom rung of the social ladder, after all.<br /><br /><br />Written by: </span><a hovercard-ref="member" hovercard-id="37" data-ipb="noparse" class="_hovertrigger url fn name  bbc_member" href='https://ladyboyforum.com/user/37-ladyboy-lust/' title='Member profile'><span itemprop="name">Ladyboy Lust</span></a>]]></description>
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